one happy, one sad,
Two sides of me,
one mad and one glad.
There's only one side
I try to let show;
my feelings inside
the others don't know.
I'm two people in one,
as strange as that sounds,
the real me inside
no one has found.
by Mic Finger
However, when there is no great understanding of the others needs, Pisces and Aries can be a devastating failure as a relationship. Because Pisces is a Water sign, and Aries is a Fire sign, if they are not mixed well, one can put the other out, or change it irrevocably. Sometimes an unknowing Pisces will dampen Aries with their emotionalism. Aries, the Ram, is far more likely to charge ahead with thick skin, while Pisces is more thin-skinned and likely to take advantage of others, and when seeing that trait in Aries, can be turned-off immensely.
While your planets (Jupiter, Mars, and Neptune) work well together, these two signs don’t always play so nice. The Ram has a hard time handling the Fishes emotional whims, and Pisces often gets left behind while Aries leads the way. Sometimes, when these signs mix well, they are able to gain great understanding from each other. Pisces can teach Aries compassion and selflessness, while Aries shows Pisces that they can be supportive and protective; something that Pisces often searches for in a mate. Pisces has the ability to love Aries, and fulfill their sexual appetite, which can be formidable, thanks to Mars. Aries needs to learn to not take that for granted, and reciprocate it for Pisces to be truly fulfilled in this relationship.
When the man in the relationship is an Aries, he can be very good for a Piscean woman. He is very dependable, and supportive when Pisces decides to try something new. As the Ram, he can see you as unique and very individual, something he will love. Pisces can admire his powerful leadership and immense energy to get things done. The physical side of the relationship should never present a problem for either of you. Aries can sometimes have a quick wit, that, when angered, can come across as mean to a delicate Pisces female. However, if the male Aries can learn to be tactful and use caution, he and Pisces can enjoy each other intellectually as well.
When the man in the relationship is a Pisces and the woman is an Aries, romance can abound! Pisces romantic nature and mysteriousness could draw any woman to him, and Aries is just as susceptible to fall for his charms. An Aries woman is exciting to him, because she inspires him to do things and go places he would have never done or gone on his own before meeting her. The Aries woman needs to understand how sensitive Pisces can be, even though he is a man, and needs to take special care not to be too caustic with him. Pisces takes everything you throw at him to heart, so make sure your words are careful, and always said out of love, not anger.
Although Pisces and Aries are such different signs, Water and Fire, respectively; and would seem to not go well together- Water douses Fire, and Fire boils Water- they can, with care, make a great team. Aries teaches Pisces to take risks and get out of their box, while Pisces teaches Aries to relax and take time to stop and smell the roses. This relationship can be wonderful for both parties when caution is used and personalities are understood.
There can, however, be many pitfalls for the Pisces/Aries match. Pisces has the tendency to daydream, and be perfectly happy with inaction. This can infuriate Aries, who is impatient, and is hard-wired to get things done, as soon as possible. Many Pisces/Aries relationship fall victim to one thing- too many differences. If they are not handled well, this relationship can be at one time both smothering to the Aries, and boiling for the Pisces. And when water boils and become steam, the personality of the Pisces is changed, and not always for the better. Use caution when you are considering entering this relationship.
Though Pisces will never be without a good time with Aries, at the end of the day, Pisces needs something a little deeper. This is another concern that needs to be taken under advisement for Pisces and Aries. Aries is a Cardinal sign, while Pisces is Mutable, which is a very good thing in terms of this relationship. Aries needs to be in charge, and Pisces is more then willing to let them. Just be sure that Pisces doesn’t become a doormat for Aries to stomp across.
The old adage ‘Opposites Attract’ is the perfect term for this relationship. The main concern is whether those opposites continue to attract or eventually repel. If both parties can learn what the other needs and is willing to sacrifice for them, this can be the most fulfilling, reciprocal match in the Zodiac. These signs really can complete the other.